Greg Bales

Independence Day

In 2008, after two years of failing to make a child organically, we learned the doom Kathy had already been feeling for more than a year was justified: I was diagnosed with male-factor infertility. Our only real chance to move forward would be in vitro fertilization. We couldn’t afford it; we couldn’t afford not to do it. One way we tried to work through that diagnosis, our anger, and our options was to start a secret infertility blog, “Less Than a Million.” This post and what comments from 2008 that are attached to it come from that blog.—gb


Better late than never: Thomas Beatie, the recently pregnant transgender man, gave birth to a baby girl on July 4. Meanwhile, Thomas Rogers’s overview of both the media coverage and the reactions to Beatie’s story from the transgender community is really interesting.

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July 09, 2008

You know, I\'ve been wondering why I can\'t find this story interesting, when clearly it\'s caught the attention (to put it lightly) of so many, including yourself.

I decided today that I just can\'t be surprised at the lengths that anyone would go to in order to have a baby--not after what we\'ve been through so far. So the guy\'s gone through any number of procedures and drugs and faced the cruelty of a judgmental society in order to establish his male gender identity, only to screw it all up by becoming pregnant...But, hey, these people really wanted a baby, and he still had the equipment to make it happen.

So, I say, more power to them. Hopefully, they can deal with the publicity they\'ve (apparently) invited. That seems like the hardest thing of all.

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